Comments on: The Butthead Mom

By: Mrs4444

Mrs4444 — Sat, 13 Dec 2008 18:11:07 +0000

She should have asked. (Not evil, but definitely buttheadish.) Read Mrs4444´s recent blog post..Friday Fragments

By: le

le — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 12:23:36 +0000

ah yuk and double yuk …. you are so on the money here … what was the child adult ratio and she had NO BUSINESS taking those kids anywhere ….

Unlike others I would not bother seeing the mom and telling her the reality of the situation …. I doubt you would have a receptive audience ….

seeing she did it she would never get your position …. and it could make things hard at school for LP.

I would simply remove the out of school contact as you have suggested.

I now have 101 horror ‘what if’s’ running thru my head …. buggar !!

I hope mommy forever is calmed down – not good for the wee one – all that rush of adreniline … my best le

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By: Daddy Forever

Daddy Forever — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 01:12:17 +0000

That’s even worst and I would freak out if that happened to me. I can’t believe that woman would pick up your daughter without even asking you first. I wonder how would she feel if you picked up her daughter without telling her.

By: Marita

Marita — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 18:18:22 +0000

Something similar happened to me: the butthead mom picked up my 2nd grader daughter after school without me knowing!!!

Not only that, I had never met the woman face-to-face, only through phone calls!!

She never called me either to tell me she had my kid!

I freaked out at the school, they searched the grounds and I was just about to call the cops – when someone at the school office, who had seen my girl play with another girl had called that girl’s mom.

Bingo, that’s where she was. When I asked the butthead about what the &^&$$ she was thinking, she told me “the girls wanted to play together” – no apology, nothing.

Butthead had 4 kids – you would think she’d have some common sense…

By: Danielle

Danielle — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 05:22:28 +0000

That is so wrong of that Mother to take those children away. I would have been P*&&&ed right off.
For what it’s worth there are some real idiots out there posing as parents….

grrrrrrrrrrr….

By: Jen

Jen — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 21:24:33 +0000

I also think she was in the wrong. It’s one thing if you are close with the family. It’s another if you only speak to them for 3 mins up at the school yard and before/after a bday party. I’ve never heard of someone else doing that, the liability possibility for taking a bunch of little kids in the car is high…they should atleast ask you if its ok if they plan on taking ur kids life in thier hands…what if you KNOW they are a bad driver? oh the heart attacks!

By: Chris H

Chris H — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 06:38:14 +0000

I'm with you, totally NOT ON.... you should have been asked first. I am glad you are not letting your daughter go there again. Read Chris H´s recent blog post..HEE HEE, TIS GOOD TO BE BACK!

By: Daddy Forever

Daddy Forever — Sat, 06 Dec 2008 01:23:57 +0000

We found out yesterday it a miscommunication problem. The birthday girl was suppose to tell our girl at school, but she didn’t.

By: peepnroosmom

peepnroosmom — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 21:01:45 +0000

That was ABSOLUTELY wrong! She should not have done that. No way, no how. I understand how Princess felt, though. I was that way when I was a kid. I never rocked the boat and I would have done the same thing. Read peepnroosmom´s recent blog post..Wiggly Fingers, Everyone!

By: Daddy Forever

Daddy Forever — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 01:26:14 +0000

Can I pummel her after we meet?

By: Daddy Forever

Daddy Forever — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 01:24:47 +0000

I don’t think it was at a mall. If we had known they were going somewhere, we would have driven there and chaperone if needed.

By: Kay

Kay — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 00:11:32 +0000

It is not normal and it is not right. You have the right to feel indignant about it but I would sugest sitting down with the Butthead Mom to find out why she did what she did. Read Kay´s recent blog post..Miss Congeniality

By: Mark

Mark — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 14:09:39 +0000

I'm just asking, but was this arcade at a mall? I freak out every time I think about it. Had you known, you could have gone to the arcade to help chaperone or something, but they didn't even give you that option. Read Mark´s recent blog post..The Cockroach Lives

By: Daddy Forever

Daddy Forever — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 03:39:12 +0000

And the arcade seems like an easy place to lose someone. Especially if you have a bunch of kids with you.

By: Leslie

Leslie — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 02:45:00 +0000

The Butthead Mom was waaaay out of line. She had no right to take your child anywhere. I'd be pissed, too! Read Leslie´s recent blog post..I Don’t Like Mondays. Even On Tuesdays.

By: Daddy Forever

Daddy Forever — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 20:57:15 +0000

You’re right, it’s a good thing the decision isn’t up to kids. They may get upset about it now, but when they have their kids, they’ll understand.

By: Daddy Forever

Daddy Forever — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 20:55:14 +0000

Thanks for the offer, but that’s my wife’s job. I know from experience, you don’t want to get her mad.

By: The Imp

The Imp — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 19:12:19 +0000

You have every reason to be upset. In this day and age unfortunately you never know who is around the corner and as much as we would love to think everyone has the same “ideas and love” about and for our children as we do it is not so.

I would not worry about insulting the parents, she is your child and your responsibility. When someone has 15 children over at their house they cannot be as diligent as if they had one or two so go ahead and ask your questions!

My father would not let me spend the night with friends who parents were divorced when I was little (of course divorced parents were rare when I was little) before he met who was going to be there and what type of situation it was. I may have chomped at the bit about it then but I see his reasoning, love, and safety in it now.

Glad to see you are a parent who cares!

By: Mike

Mike — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 16:59:44 +0000

Thankfully you realize that you daughter was too young to understand the issue. I have teenagers and still insist that they tell me EXACTLY where there going, and with who and if there will be parents around and what is there phone number. If you don't confront that Mom (who probably was clueless) than I'm driving up there myself and give her what's left of my mind... Read Mike´s recent blog post..Logic and Teenagers

By: Holly Schwendiman

Holly Schwendiman — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 16:47:49 +0000

Um yeah that's not cool. Hugs, Holly Read Holly Schwendiman´s recent blog post..Wordless Wednesday - Marking Territory

By: Daddy Forever

Daddy Forever — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 16:07:43 +0000

Sorry your friend’s son was abducted for four years. Glad he was returned.

By: Daddy Forever

Daddy Forever — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 16:05:22 +0000

You should have seen the steam coming from my wife’s head when she came home.

By: Daddy Forever

Daddy Forever — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 16:04:08 +0000

Glad I’m not the only one to feel this way.

By: Daddy Forever

Daddy Forever — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 16:03:28 +0000

Thanks for reminding me swimming pools. Our kids can’t swim and I forget about that when ship them off on play dates.

By: Daddy Forever

Daddy Forever — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 16:00:30 +0000

Not insulting other parents is one of the reasons why we let our girl go the party w/o us there. They leave their kids at house so it would be insulting to insist on staying.

By: yoshi

yoshi — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 15:17:22 +0000

that's totally crazy. I'm probably just a bit more paranoid since my friend had his son abducted (but returned, 4 years later) so leaving my kids (if I had any) at anyone's house would require some serious leniency. but if they moved the kids to another location, i would totally be angered. don't let the hulk out! yeah you're right to be upset. i don't blame you. moving without notification, bad parenting. Read yoshi´s recent blog post..Verification of the truth of the words of the Book of Counted Shadows…

By: Autumn

Autumn — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 14:36:06 +0000

I would be livid. Read Autumn´s recent blog post..Little buddies

By: Chris

Chris — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 13:57:50 +0000

I’m a father of two little girls ages two and six. I would feel the exact same way about the situation. Some people lack common sense in this case it’s Butthead Mom.

By: Desert Songbird

Desert Songbird — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 13:33:54 +0000

That mother was in the WRONG, plain and simple. Your child was released to her custody IN HER HOME ONLY, not for her to take her all over town without your permission. If something had happened, you have had no clue as to where to begin searching for your child. You should definitely tell this woman why you are upset. It seems she clearly has a value system deficiency. I'll bet there were other parents from the party who also have an issue with this. Oh, and as a rule, whenever my children go to a new friend's house, I always ask if there are older siblings or weapons in the house. These questions sometimes startle the parents, but most of the time, they're thankful that I'm so diligent. And I always say if my kids have permission, or not, to swim in a pool. Read Desert Songbird´s recent blog post..Celebrations

By: Mrs. C

Mrs. C — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 11:41:33 +0000

This is outrageous. Leaving the property AT ALL with your child is just not right unless it was on the invitation and/or you were informed. You watch, though. If Little Princess is going to someone else's house, and you ask them if they have guns and/or are taking her to Mexico, the other parent WILL get insulted. It's a shame we have to ask questions like this. Read Mrs. C´s recent blog post..Opinion?