Happy Birthday Little Princess

Posted by Daddy Forever on Wednesday, June 13, 2007 : : 27 comments

Dear Little Princess,

Happy birthday! You turn seven today. Wow, seven. I’m amazed at how well you turned out. You are our first child and until you were born, your mommy and daddy have never taken care of a baby before. And unlike other parents, like the responsible ones, mommy and daddy have never even read a parenting book. Not a single one. When it comes to raising you, it has been on the job training all the way. We learned a lot about parenting from you. Unfortunately for you, you are the guinea pig and your little brother and sister are the beneficiaries of all that we have learned. Sorry.

As inexperience as mommy and daddy were at being parents, you were even more clueless on how to be a kid. When you watched the Wiggles, you didn’t dance to the music like other kids. You just sat there and watched. Same with shows like Dora. You preferred to sit and watch instead of shouting out “Map! Map!” or “Backpack! Backpack!” Then there’s the concept of playing with other kids, which you didn’t seem to understand until you were almost four. When daddy took you to the park or to kids birthday parties, you didn’t play with the other kids. Instead you watched the other kids in the comfort of daddy’s arms. Thank goodness you finally figured it out. Now, if it was up to you, you would go on play dates 24×7.

When you were little, daddy knew you were on the bright side. Not genius or prodigy bright, but bright nonetheless. When you were barely two, you knew your ABC’s, the main colors, could spell some words, and spoke clearly. Strangers use to ask how old you were and were amazed you could speak so clearly when you were just two. And before you were even three, you were forming compound sentences that did not involve the word and. I still remember when you said to me, “Daddy, you can kiss me, but you can’t tickle me.” Just so you know, I’m your daddy and I can kiss and tickle you if I want to.

This year, your first grade teacher confirmed you were bright. Halfway through the school year, the school district gave you a reading test. The goal was to read 40 words per minute by the end of the school year. They clocked you at 110 words per minute. The teacher said you read accurately and you understood what you were reading. Mommy and daddy are so proud of you. Good going, kiddo!

This year, you started learning how to play the piano. We don’t own a piano so you have been practicing on a cardboard keypad. Just kidding, you have been practicing on an electronic keyboard. Our neighbor has only given you a few lessons so far, so it’s too early to tell if it will stick. But so far, you seem to like it.

We also enrolled you in Chinese school this year. It was only 50 minutes a week, but that was enough to get you started. And because mommy and daddy can’t speak Chinese, you’ll eventually be able to say anything you want and mommy and daddy will be clueless.

You adore your baby sister. And when I see you two together, I can’t help but remember when you use to be daddy’s little girl. For the first three years of your life, daddy was the center of your universe. You prefer daddy over mommy. Life was good. Then your little brother came along. Your baby brother was like a new puppy to you. Daddy was no longer at the center of your universe. I miss that little girl, but I also proud of the girl that you are now and the woman you will become someday.

I love you. Happy birthday, little princess.

Love,
Daddy Forever

my little princess

little princess at the park

my little princess the cheerleader

the little princess in her chinese outfit

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27 Comments »

Comment by Doris Clark
2007-06-13 06:52:52

Happy Birthday Little Princess!!

Keep smilin!

Comment by Daddy Forever
2007-06-13 12:53:45

Thanks on behalf of the little princess.

 
 
Comment by Leslie
2007-06-13 07:11:32

Wow, it’s birthday madness at your house!

I’m an only child and the mother of one child, so I am always surprised at how different siblings can be.

Your little princess is just beautiful. I hope she has a happy birthday!

Comment by Daddy Forever
2007-06-13 12:48:15

Madness it is. Just got back from Burger King with Spiderboy (you can never have enough FF 4 toys) and my wife got back from having lunch with the princess at school. In a few hours, it will be out to dinner. Then the real party on Saturday!

 
 
Comment by peepnroosmom
2007-06-13 07:46:11

Happy Birthday, Princess!
Your little girl is beautiful. Amazing how fast the time flies.
i know what you mean about the oldest being the guinea pig. Poor Peep, he had to suffer through all of our trial and errors, too.

Comment by Daddy Forever
2007-06-13 12:50:32

A bit unfair, but at least the oldest had mommy and daddy all to him/herself.

 
 
Comment by Vicky
2007-06-13 09:05:08

HAPPY BIRTHDAY… and to your wife too! It is her birthday too right?

Comment by Daddy Forever
2007-06-13 12:51:26

That’s right. You would think that would help me to get a card for my wife, but I didn’t get one until yesterday.

 
 
Comment by Holly Schwendiman
2007-06-13 10:27:19

Didn’t we just read about Spiderboy’s birthday? How funny that they are so close - my son and daughter are only 3 days apart in October, his first, then hers. SHe’s a beautiful girl who is growing very fast! What a fun thing to do for their birthdays.

Hugs,
Holly

Comment by Daddy Forever
2007-06-13 12:52:48

It’s a triple feature. My wife, oldest daughter, and son all have their birthdays today.

 
 
Comment by slackermommy
2007-06-13 12:51:27

Sniff…sniff…what a sweet tribute to your beautiful daughter.

Comment by Daddy Forever
2007-06-13 13:00:00

If only the kids could remind little kids forever. Not fair for them, but I think I could live with that.

 
 
Comment by May
2007-06-13 20:16:59

After saying Happy Birthday to Spiderboy, I remembered that it was the Princess’ and Mommy Forever’s birthdays too. What happy-fun madness to have 3 birthdays all on the same day.

Happy Birthday, Princess M! What a sweet letter your daddy wrote for you.

Comment by Daddy Forever
2007-06-13 22:14:06

Correct, fun AND madness at the same time. Luckily, the little monkey and I have don’t have to share our birthdays.

 
 
Comment by Mark
2007-06-13 20:17:22

Wow, June is birthday month at your house. And I’m coming to the creepy realization that my three (7 next month, 4 last week, and 13 months) are very close in age to your three. Happy birthday to all, and thanks for sharing your family with us.

Comment by Daddy Forever
2007-06-13 22:15:18

That is kinda weird. Maybe you’re really my twin brother.

 
 
Comment by Mary
2007-06-14 19:17:41

Now THAT was so sweet! Happy belated Birthday Little Princess!

DF, what you described is my 1st born to a T… so we have a lot in common I’m sure.

I just wonder if yours is as sassy as mine. ;)

Comment by Daddy Forever
2007-06-15 17:11:07

I would say mine is sassy with an altitude.

 
 
Comment by Desert Songbird
2007-06-14 22:11:59

Beautiful post! It’s apparent how you feel about your first born.

Comment by Daddy Forever
2007-06-15 17:13:25

Too bad she didn’t have the benefit of experienced parents.

 
 
Comment by Sunrunner
2007-06-15 03:29:33

Very nice post and beautiful pictures of your little girl! Happy birthday!!!

Comment by Daddy Forever
2007-06-15 17:13:51

The little princess thanks you.

 
 
Comment by Kay
2007-06-15 04:09:40

Awww … your lil princess is gorgeous and lucky to have you guys as parents!

Comment by Daddy Forever
2007-06-15 17:14:10

And we’re lucky to have her.

 
 
Comment by tiggerprr
2007-06-16 05:37:19

It takes spectactular timing to have 3 birthdays all on one day. What a feat! :P

Seriously, what nice tributes to your kiddos. ::sniffle::

 
Comment by Ann
2007-06-17 21:23:39

Happy belated Birthday little Princess!!!!! You’re sure a cutie!

 
Comment by neal-i
2007-07-20 12:18:02

Super cool!!!

 
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